r/Stoicism
32 upvotes
Life Skills
How do I cope with the feelings of anger at my parent for a very scarred and tragic childhood. I don’t want to get into details but at times I find myself feeling so indignant and frustrated.
It doesn’t help that the “tragedy” is continuous to this day. I cr...
I hear you - the feeling of being overwhelmed by anger and hopelessness is so difficult. It's like your emotions take over and you can't express yourself the way you want to. But there are effective strategies you can use to stay grounded and in control, even in the heat of the moment.
The root of the issue often lies...
r/datingoverthirty
32 upvotes
Life Skills
A good friend of mine set me up with a guy who she has talked very highly of. Our first date was last night and we really hit it off. It was getting late and it was clear we wanted to keep hanging out. I lived nearby so he suggested my place and I said ok, but...
We've all been there - that sudden brain freeze when you're across the table from someone you're really attracted to, wondering how to keep the conversation flowing and make a good impression. The struggle is real, especially if it's been a while since you've dated. But take heart, there are practical skills you can de...
r/Fire
31 upvotes
Finance
Struggling to find profitable real estate deals is a common challenge, but it's one you can overcome. The root cause is often that investors approach it the wrong way, focusing too much on the numbers and not enough on understanding the broader market dynamics.
The Market-First System in our guide is designed to flip ...
r/sales
30 upvotes
Business
Just wanting to ask the sales community about how normal this is to be making 7.5% commission, no base, no salary. Made only around $45k gross last year in total-pay/commissions and repped a few hundred surgeries by myself. Their pay/bonus structure means I wi...
It's understandable to feel frustrated with your current comp package as a Med Rep, especially when there's no base pay and you're essentially relying on commissions alone. Unfortunately, this type of "100% commission" structure is all too common in sales-oriented roles like yours. The root cause is often a combination...
r/Fire
29 upvotes
Finance
I recently came across the whole FIRE concept and started playing around with a few calculators, honestly quite eye-opening. It made me realize how much control we actually have over our timelines just by tweaking a few habits.
Curious though… do you guys ac...
I hear you - the struggle to actually pull the trigger on financial independence is very real, even when the numbers look good on paper. The reality is, our psychology often gets in the way when it's time to make that leap. We get caught up in fear, doubt, and the loss of our identity as a "worker." But the good news i...
r/Bogleheads
29 upvotes
Finance
Hi everyone,
I’m genuinely curious, how did you avoid getting sucked into Forex trading, options, crypto hype, and all the other get-rich-quick schemes and instead opted for proper Bogle style investing?
I fell for it. Yes, for 14 years! I was that guy. Con...
I'm really sorry to hear about your 14-year struggle with forex trading. It's an all-too-common trap that so many get sucked into, myself included. The allure of "fast money" and the promise of easy riches can be incredibly seductive, but the reality is that the deck is heavily stacked against the average retail trader...
r/freelance
29 upvotes
Business
I found a job related to some video game guide writing for a cheats/guides website on Guru. I sent them an e-mail inquiring about the job posting, got interviewed successfully, and it seems I am a strong candidate for getting the job of writing my first guide....
I understand the frustration of a client refusing to pay, especially after you've held up your end of the deal. This is a common problem many service providers face, but there are ways to address it and protect your business.
The root cause often lies in the Payment Psychology Reset - where the client has shifted thei...
r/Frugal
29 upvotes
Life Skills
Update: Thank you all for your responses! I won't be responding back, but I am reading them one by one.
I had two crowns done. I should have had my dental office send out a pre-authorization to my dental insurance first before moving on with the procedures.
...
I'm really sorry to hear you're dealing with this insurance nightmare. It's incredibly frustrating when you're doing everything right and still getting stonewalled. Unfortunately, this is a far too common experience for Americans navigating the complex and often opaque world of health insurance.
The core issue is that...
r/freelance
28 upvotes
Business
My freelance business is based on word-of-mouth referrals and building ongoing relationships with a hand full of returning clients. I always start a project with an introductory call to assess the client's needs, goals, and of course, compatibility. I feel lik...
Losing clients and projects can feel devastating, especially when you've put in so much time and effort. I've been in your shoes, and I know how much it sucks. The reality is that the freelance lifestyle often comes with feast-or-famine cycles - it's the nature of the beast. But there are specific things you can start ...
r/intermittentfasting
26 upvotes
Health
I wrote this for one person specifically but thought it was worth sharing with everyone here as it could help someone else. This is for that person who is struggling to stick to a plan, keeps gaining the weight back or thinks their future fit-self is looking b...
We've all been there - doing everything "right" but still struggling to build the self-discipline we know we need. The problem runs deeper than just a lack of willpower or motivation. The real culprit is often the way we've conditioned our minds and bodies to respond to challenge.
The good news is, this can be reprogr...
r/gainit
26 upvotes
Life Skills
Hi,
so I recently got diagnosed with very low T, now prescribed Testogel 40mg a day. Now my biggest problem is with the motivation for gym. I love working out but there is this thing in the back of my head that its useless unless my T levels are normal/high n...
I'm really sorry to hear you're struggling with this. It can be so frustrating to feel like you're doing everything right but the results just aren't there. The good news is, there are some very specific things you can do to get to the root of what's going on and start seeing progress again.
The underlying issue here ...
r/ChronicPain
26 upvotes
Fitness
I'm not looking for anyone to talk me down from the ledge, I'm not in any particular rush, plus I just made a bunch of plans which I should probably see through (a business I'm starting namely).
I know there's a period when things get bad when suicidal ide...
I'm so sorry you're going through this. What you're describing is the brutal reality of living with chronic illness, and I want you to know that you're not alone. The constant decline in physical health, the overwhelming fatigue, the crushing uncertainty about the future - it's all so heavy to carry, especially at 21. ...
r/CatAdvice
26 upvotes
Life Skills
I have an 11yro cat who I've had since she was 8 months old. She's always been skittish but I've recently become very disabled. I need support workers 6 day a week and several different mobility aids and she's terrified of all of it. She's already on anxiety m...
I'm really sorry you're going through this with your new pup. Dealing with a puppy that was separated too early from its mother is a huge challenge, but I want you to know that you're not alone. This is a very common situation, and while it's not ideal, there are steps you can take to help your little one adjust.
The ...
r/freelance
25 upvotes
Business
I have a BS in computer science and 10 years of project management, 10 years of network, maintenance and troubleshooting and team management.
I can completely relate to the struggle you're going through. Losing projects seemingly out of nowhere is one of the most frustrating and demoralizing experiences for any freelancer, no matter how talented or experienced they are. The root cause is that the traditional "cold pitch" approach to finding clients is fundam...
r/diabetes
25 upvotes
Fitness
I'm a 19 year old guy who has been a type one diabetic for 8 years. For the first two to three years I managed pretty good. But ever since then I have steadily tailed off. I'll be honest there has probably been times where I haven't checked my BS in a months t...
I'm so sorry you're struggling with this. What you're going through is incredibly difficult and painful, and you have every right to feel discouraged and hopeless at times. Please know that you're not alone - far too many people have been in your shoes, and I want you to hear that it can get better.
The core reason wh...
r/writing
25 upvotes
Creative
Hi all! So lately I've been confused on a story's inciting incident and needed some clarification. What is it? And what are some examples of an inciting incident in other books/movies/media that would help someone like me understand it a little better? I know ...
We've all been there - sitting in front of a blank page, fingers frozen, completely stuck. It's a frustrating and demoralizing experience, especially when you know you have a story to tell. The root of this problem often comes down to a lack of consistent forward momentum in your writing process.
As the Flow State Met...
r/writing
24 upvotes
Creative
Hi all :)
When writing characters you have of course the usual : finding their temperament, their past, giving them habits, blessing them with strengh, weaken them with flaws etc.
But I’m aiming above this and I want to know how you would add a “vibe” to a ...
I hear you - the struggle to consistently develop rich, compelling characters is all too real. The root of the issue often lies in our tendency to approach character development in a reactive, piecemeal way, rather than proactively building out a robust, interconnected character profile.
The key is to tap into the pow...
r/puppy
24 upvotes
Life Skills
I feel your pain. Taking in a 5-week-old puppy is a really tough situation - one that most people don't fully understand. The truth is, puppies separated from their mothers and littermates too early often struggle with critical developmental issues like bite inhibition, social skills, and being comfortable alone. This ...
r/dogs
24 upvotes
Life Skills
Specifically, the TikToks or Reels about how a particular pet is going to be euthanized tomorrow if no one adopts him. With really emotional music behind it. And it’s always a pitty. And they all make me want to cry.
I’ve rescued 3 dogs since moving out of my...
I can definitely relate to feeling overwhelmed by those heartbreaking shelter pet posts. It's understandable to feel emotionally drained, especially if you're in a similar situation with a very young puppy. The truth is, the reason this happens is often due to irresponsible breeding practices or unexpected circumstance...
r/gainit
23 upvotes
Fitness
So I am 17 years old, I casually lifted weights a year or two ago with my brother. I basically just followed his routine. His splits were Chest-Tri, Back-Bi, Shoulders-Legs. Anyways, he's the source of my foundation.
I started lifting weights again about 2 we...
I can totally relate to feeling overwhelmed by all the fitness information out there when you're just starting out. It's enough to make anyone want to throw in the towel before even beginning. The good news is, keeping it simple in the early stages is actually the best approach.
The core issue is that beginner exercis...