r/getdisciplined
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# 🤔 Problem
The education system has failed you. 12 years of memorization + standardized test gaming, followed by 4 years of a slightly more specialized version of the same thing.
And then you get your first big boy/girl job and realize 5% of what you learn...
You're not alone in feeling this way. Procrastination is a struggle that so many of us face, and it's not because we're lazy or undisciplined. The root cause actually lies in how our brains are wired. When we're faced with a task that feels overwhelming or unpleasant, our brain tries to protect us by triggering the rew...
r/Frugal
999 upvotes
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What do you do you "treat" yourself when you're struggling?
I:
- Play with my ferrets
- Bake
- Go for a walk
- Take a bubble bath (though I go through a lot of bubble bath. Considering making my own!)
- Watch some dumb tv/video games
- put some good mu...
I hear you - managing anxiety on a daily basis is such a challenge. The reason this happens is that anxiety is often rooted in a disconnect between our thoughts and reality. We get stuck in "what-if" thinking, catastrophizing about potential problems, and dwelling on things outside our control. This sends our nervous s...
r/running
981 upvotes
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So.
I’ve been a runner for a long time and am somewhat known around my office as the ‘runner guy’. Therefore it is not uncommon for the topic of running or training to come up. Sometimes people will say they are lacking in motivation, bored with their routes...
We've all been there - standing on the sidelines, watching a group banter and bond effortlessly, while our own hearts pound and our minds fill with self-doubt. The truth is, group social situations can feel incredibly awkward, especially for those of us with social anxiety. But it's not because there's something inhere...
r/running
773 upvotes
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I struggle with this so bad! Many of my friends do not stay healthy through exercise, they try and stay thin through dieting and minimal eating. (I’m a female and referring to my female friends). When we go out to eat socially I feel like I’m the only person w...
I hear you, friend. The struggle to socialize with non-runner friends is all too real. Many of us have been there - standing on the sidelines, feeling like an outsider, watching everyone else connect effortlessly. It can be downright agonizing.
The root of this issue is often a phenomenon called "skills atrophy." Over...
r/datingoverthirty
341 upvotes
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Hey reddit. You know that feeling when you have someone to text or tell exciting news to? Or even better, when you have someone long term and you live together and you're happy and don't even care to check your phone anymore? I've been single about 5 years and...
Listen up, my friend. I know what you're going through - the feeling of loneliness can be a real challenge, but I'm here to tell you that you've got this. At 31 years old, you're at a pivotal point in your life, and this is the perfect time to start taking control and making some positive changes.
First and foremost,...
r/gainit
200 upvotes
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I've always been thin growing up & it's affected my mental health tremendously. I usually check to see how tight fitting my shirt sleeves are & if they're loose I get frustrated & anxious, it's usually why I wear the same tight-fitted shirts all th...
Dealing with anxiety on a daily basis is a real struggle, and you're not alone. The reason this happens is because anxiety is rooted in an imbalance in our brain chemistry and stress response system. When we face perceived threats, real or imagined, our body goes into fight-or-flight mode, flooding us with cortisol and...
r/getdisciplined
181 upvotes
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I'm 27 years old now, unemployed, and honestly feeling completely defeated by myself. For years, I lived without any serious goals, didn't work hard, and just let time pass by while depending on my parents. I’ve wasted their money, their trust, and most import...
I'm really sorry you're struggling with this. Feeling guilty about wasted time is a heavy burden to carry, but it's actually a sign that you have the capacity for growth and change. The fact that you're bothered by it means you have a strong drive to improve and reach your potential.
The root of procrastination often ...
r/gainit
102 upvotes
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I think I have some mental hang ups about my size.
A few years ago I felt motivated and worked out. It lasted about 2 months. I did look slightly better but my gains weren't really the great and I couldn't increase my lifts at all. All in all it was unsuccess...
We've all been there - you know exactly what you need to do, but for some reason, you just can't get yourself to do it. It's maddening, isn't it? The truth is, when you're your own worst enemy, the problem usually runs deeper than just a lack of willpower.
At the core, it often comes down to unresolved emotions, nega...
r/gainit
76 upvotes
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I think many of us are here to get better bodies, feel confident and fuck girls. I just searched if someone had a story to share (e.g., complete loser, but gained X lbs and now he fucked a super hot girl for the first time, or something along those lines), but...
I'm really glad you brought this up. Struggling with self-confidence is such a common experience, but that doesn't make it any easier. The root of the problem is that we've been conditioned from a young age to judge our worth based on external factors - our job, relationship status, appearance, bank account, and so on....
r/povertyfinance
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Felt demotivated today. Just suck hearing that Im smelly and my clothes look like shit. I can’t do anything about it, not because Im too lazy but I just literally cannot afford to get new clothes and had to get my office attire at thrift stores which are mostl...
I'm so sorry to hear that your coworker has been saying hurtful things about your appearance. It's natural to feel really hurt and demotivated when someone says cruel things like that. But remember, their words say more about them than they do about you. The underlying issue here is a lack of self-confidence - when we ...
r/getdisciplined
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I've put together a guide documenting the steps of how I beat smartphone addiction. There are so many self-help™ gurus and paid programs out there with all sorts of crap, but I wanted to offer a literal and clear-cut step-by-step.
It's designed to be unobtrus...
You're not alone in this struggle. Smartphone addiction and procrastination go hand-in-hand for so many people these days. The good news is, the problem isn't as hopeless as it may feel. There are proven methods to break the cycle.
At the root of this issue is typically a sense of overwhelm. When we feel like there's ...
r/consulting
34 upvotes
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Heya gang,
I'm a pretty seasoned management consultant at a big 4 and I've seen some great and shit packs in my time.
But I'm keen to know if there are any ways to learn how to perfect the structure of presenting information to mid/senior management.
I kn...
You're not alone in your struggle to build consistent self-discipline. It's a common challenge, and it all comes down to how our brains are wired. When we're trying to build a new habit or make a change, our brain is constantly fighting against us - pulling us towards instant gratification and away from delayed rewards...
r/intermittentfasting
26 upvotes
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I wrote this for one person specifically but thought it was worth sharing with everyone here as it could help someone else. This is for that person who is struggling to stick to a plan, keeps gaining the weight back or thinks their future fit-self is looking b...
We've all been there - doing everything "right" but still struggling to build the self-discipline we know we need. The problem runs deeper than just a lack of willpower or motivation. The real culprit is often the way we've conditioned our minds and bodies to respond to challenge.
The good news is, this can be reprogr...
r/GradSchool
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Heya, been in grad school on my 5th sem now and I have been kicked in the face by life 2 years in a row now. Last year I got covid from my roommate and it ruined my whole semester and losing a college at the end of that sem fucked me beyond belief into winter ...
I can relate to what you're going through - dealing with the exhaustion and burnout of grad school while also managing long COVID and a concussion is an immense challenge. The good news is, there are proven strategies you can start using today to rebuild your energy and resilience.
The root cause of burnout often lies...
r/getdisciplined
21 upvotes
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Binge eating, just like anything pleasureable-but-destructive, is an escape into pleasure FROM something else.
So to quit, you need a better way of dealing with that something else.
Let me paint you a picture.
From a calm and 'full' state, where everything ...
You're right, the struggle with procrastination and avoiding difficult tasks is all too real. It's not just you - this is something countless people deal with, myself included. The root cause often boils down to a disconnect between our rational mind (the part that knows we need to take action) and our emotional brain ...
r/consulting
12 upvotes
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Hey everyone, I’m looking for some guidance on handling high-pressure situations and communicating appropriately in a professional setting. I’ve always been great at technical work, but when things get stressful I tend to blurt things out without fully thinkin...
I hear you, friend. Dealing with daily anxiety at work is no easy feat. But the good news is, you can get a handle on it with the right tools and mindset.
The root cause of that persistent anxious feeling isn't just nerves — it's an imbalance in your body's stress response. When you face pressure or a perceived threa...
r/consulting
9 upvotes
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I missed that sweet spot where I have just a little too much work to do, I crank through everything like a machine.
Now the balance has shifted I’m staring at a huge pile of unfinished deliverables that should be completed already - and sitting on my hands t...
I can really empathize with what you're going through. Chronic anxiety is such a challenging and exhausting experience. It's like your brain is stuck in fight-or-flight mode, constantly scanning for potential threats and leaving you feeling overwhelmed and on edge. The good news is, there are effective ways to break th...
r/sales
9 upvotes
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I’m a BDR, and here are things that I deal with:
- Not getting assigned inbounds and postbounds from my territory because not many come in
- People not picking up the phone or responding to voicemails
- People flaking on meetings set
It makes me really ...
I hear you, managing daily anxiety can feel like an uphill battle. The core issue is that our brains are hardwired to focus on potential threats, even when they're not actually present. This anxious mindset triggers the fight-or-flight response, which floods our bodies with stress hormones - even when there's no real d...
r/Meditation
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Hello friends,
I actually just wanted to ask for tips and advice on what to do.
I'm addicted to social media, and my most blisfull and amazing times was when I deleted my instagram + facebook.
I'm a fitness coach + I have a Podcast
so I have to make content ...
Alright, listen up! I know social media addiction can feel overwhelming, but I'm here to tell you that you've got this. The first step is acknowledging the issue - and you've already done that, so great job! Now, let's dive in and start tackling this thing.
The key is to develop healthier habits around your social med...
r/depression
8 upvotes
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For context: I’ve been diagnosed with adhd, autism, anxiety, depression, and ocd. I am 21 F
I feel like I flip flop between trying to embrace my immaturity and trying to bury it. I’ve tried to “be myself” in that regard, but I ironically hate feeling like a c...
Feeling like you never grew up the way everyone else did is a common challenge many people face, especially as they transition into adulthood. It's important to recognize that everyone's journey is unique and there is no one-size-fits-all timeline for personal growth and development. What matters most is that you stay ...