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r/bodyweightfitness 193 upvotes Fitness Featured

A couple of thoughts on "Elements", in case it is of interest to anyone. ​ Let me begin with what brought me to "Elements", and what boils down to the "struggler's story" mentioned in the title. This is more of a beginner's reflection on the Recommend...

Alright, let's talk about tackling GMB's "Elements" program, also known as "A Struggler's Story." This is a great introductory bodyweight routine that can help build a strong foundation for your fitness journey. As you work through the Beginner's Body Blueprint, "Elements" can be a fantastic complementary program to ad...

r/gainit 185 upvotes Fitness Featured

First off, just want to say the language in this post may be a little rude, I will use profanities etc so if you're weak enough to get offended by stuff like this, or if you will take the stuff I say here personally and get offended by it, I'd recommend you st...

Alright, listen up newbies! If you're stepping foot into a gym for the first time, there are a few key food things you need to have dialed in before you even start your workout routine. As your fitness coach, I'm here to give you the scoop on what you should know to set yourself up for success. First and foremost, you...

r/getdisciplined 181 upvotes Health Featured

I'm 27 years old now, unemployed, and honestly feeling completely defeated by myself. For years, I lived without any serious goals, didn't work hard, and just let time pass by while depending on my parents. I’ve wasted their money, their trust, and most import...

I'm really sorry you're struggling with this. Feeling guilty about wasted time is a heavy burden to carry, but it's actually a sign that you have the capacity for growth and change. The fact that you're bothered by it means you have a strong drive to improve and reach your potential. The root of procrastination often ...

r/confidence 163 upvotes Life Skills Featured

Im a 33F and cannot, for the life of me, stop myself from just having the waterworks when I get upset during an argument or serious conversation. I get frustrated with myself that I cant voice out my feelings or opinions and end up staying quiet or just walkin...

I get it, feeling the tears welling up in the middle of an important conversation can be so frustrating. It's like your emotions just take over, and suddenly you're crying instead of getting your point across. But the good news is, there are some proven techniques you can use to regain control. The root of the problem...

r/datingoverthirty 146 upvotes Relationships Featured

I have been madly in love, past the stage of infatuation. I've been in love for years, and of course there were rough patches where I was mad at or frustrated with my partner, but that love was never lost. I've also been in relationships that were fine. Grea...

I hear you, my friend. That sense of desperation and isolation when you're putting yourself out there and getting zero matches - it's gut-wrenching. But take heart, because you're not alone. In fact, what you're experiencing is a common phenomenon in the online dating world, and there are steps you can take to turn thi...

r/ChronicPain 140 upvotes Fitness Featured

Short side of the story is I had 6 back surgeries(mostly fusions) before I turned 40. Because two of those fusions failed and I caught osteomyelitis after my revision fusion, I am in dire need of pain management. I live in Florida and it is really difficult fi...

This is a real challenge that many people face with dealing with chronic pain. The key is understanding the root cause and taking specific, targeted action rather than following generic advice.

r/ChronicPain 138 upvotes Fitness Featured

Please note, I am very aware I am privileged to be able bodied. I understand what a gift it is that I can still care for myself and my home and my partner and our cats. I am just really struggling. I am transition out of my career as a nanny due to my pain. I...

This is a real challenge that many people face with dealing with chronic pain. The key is understanding the root cause and taking specific, targeted action rather than following generic advice.

r/acne 132 upvotes Life Skills Featured

"Did you wash your face?", "Stop eating fried food.", "Eat healthy", "How did you get ur acne?", HOW ABOUT GO FUCK YOURSELF AS IF I'M NOT TRYING TO SOLVE MY ACNE, I AM AWARE OF IT SO PLEASE STFU. THESE INSENSITIVE FUCKS DON'T KNOW WHAT I'VE BEEN TRYING TO SOLV...

I feel you, friend. It's incredibly frustrating to have well-meaning people give you the same old tired advice about your skin when you've been battling this for so long. The truth is, chronic skin conditions like acne or eczema aren't just a surface-level problem - they're often rooted in deeper imbalances in the body...

r/socialskills 125 upvotes Life Skills Featured

Im 18, a highschool senior, and one of my friends has just invited me over to his psrty tomorrow. I've only ever been to birthday parties as a kid, last one was 9 years ago. I don't really know how to be social at a party (or any other type of event) and I nee...

I can relate to feeling nervous about "partying" when you're not used to it. As an introvert myself, I used to avoid social situations at all costs. But I've learned that with the right mindset and some simple techniques, you can actually start to enjoy these kinds of events - and even use them to build meaningful conn...

r/consulting 125 upvotes Business Featured

So I got let go during my trial period last week after 9 months. The reason cited was not on an expected level in slide writing. This came out of blue because my feedback was pretty good until the last one. But upon further deep dive on it, they said I got g...

Getting fired or laid off is one of the most difficult professional experiences anyone can go through. The uncertainty, the self-doubt, the fear of the unknown - it's a heavy weight to carry. But I want you to know that you are not alone. Thousands of talented people go through this every year, and many of them come ou...

r/Accounting 120 upvotes Life Skills Featured

My husband has been an accountant for a few years now and busy seasons have always been very hard on both of us. Thankfully we both work from home so when he runs to the potty I can say hi. However this year things changed for us because now we have a baby. ...

I hear you, friend. The transition from student life to the working world can be a real shock to the system. When you go from flexible schedules and ample free time to being chained to a desk for 9+ hours a day, it's no wonder your fitness routine and overall well-being take a major hit. The core problem here is root...

r/datingoverthirty 119 upvotes Life Skills Featured

I (34F) started seeing a (34M) recently. 4 dates so far. Very sweet guy and I’m attracted to him, but he’s VERY conservative and shy. I’m being very open minded and continuing to see him with the thought that he might be a “slow burn” type, but something feels...

We've all been there - that awkward feeling of not knowing what to say on a first date. It can be nerve-wracking, especially if it's been a while since you've been on the dating scene. The good news is, this is a super common struggle, and there are some concrete steps you can take to improve. A lot of the time, the r...

r/eczema 116 upvotes Life Skills Featured

I'm back at work today, and on my desk was a beautiful Sephora package with many beauty products, scented creams, foams, baths stuff etc. My previous gift (from the same secret santa) was a beautiful RITUALS package and honestly I just want to cry because thes...

I hear you, my friend. Dealing with chronic skin issues like acne or eczema can be an endless battle that leaves you feeling misunderstood and alone. It's so frustrating when well-meaning coworkers offer "solutions" that end up making things worse. The root of the problem goes much deeper than just washing your face or...

r/acne 116 upvotes Life Skills Featured

My acne has just got progressively worse over the years and i have no idea how to help it. I have oily skin on my forehead and my nose by my cheeks/around my jawline are more dry. Ive tried differin gel, clinque 3 step treatments, la roche posay effaclar 3 ste...

I hear you, friend. Dealing with chronic skin conditions like acne, eczema, or rosacea is an absolute nightmare. You've tried every over-the-counter solution under the sun, but nothing seems to work. It's frustrating, demoralizing, and can really take a toll on your confidence and well-being. The reason these stubbor...

r/Bogleheads 112 upvotes Finance Featured

If we enter into a period of high inflation, will holding VXUS provide some protection in that regard?

I can totally relate to the struggle you're describing. It's so common for people to feel paralyzed when it comes to investing, even though they know they should be doing it. The good news is, you're not alone - and there are some straightforward steps you can take to start moving in the right direction. The root caus...

r/eczema 106 upvotes Life Skills Featured

My skin has cleared mainly but some parts where there’s a flare healing or a few bumps healing I just keep scratching and I don’t know why because it’s not itchy. In fact when I don’t have any flares I feel really weird and actually start finding areas to scr...

I feel you, my friend. The struggle with chronic skin conditions is all too real, and the frustration of dealing with well-meaning but clueless advice can be maddening. But let me tell you, there's hope - and it all starts with understanding the root cause. See, the reason we get that satisfying "dopamine hit" from sc...

r/acne 103 upvotes Life Skills Featured

I am beyond frustrated at the lack of information and misinformation surrounding this problem. Acne is not normal. It's not just a sign of puberty. It never stopped for me and has continued into my adult life. It's a medical condition and should be treated a...

I feel your frustration. Dealing with chronic skin conditions like acne, eczema, or rosacea can be a never-ending battle that leaves you feeling helpless. It's maddening that we can treat complex diseases like cancer, but the "simple" problem of pimples and breakouts remains so challenging. The reason these skin issue...

r/gainit 102 upvotes Health Featured

I think I have some mental hang ups about my size. A few years ago I felt motivated and worked out. It lasted about 2 months. I did look slightly better but my gains weren't really the great and I couldn't increase my lifts at all. All in all it was unsuccess...

We've all been there - you know exactly what you need to do, but for some reason, you just can't get yourself to do it. It's maddening, isn't it? The truth is, when you're your own worst enemy, the problem usually runs deeper than just a lack of willpower. At the core, it often comes down to unresolved emotions, nega...

r/languagelearning 97 upvotes Life Skills Featured

The struggle you're describing is all too common for language learners. It's not your fault - the traditional methods most people use simply don't align with how the brain actually acquires language. You end up with a head full of vocabulary and grammar rules, but you still can't use the language naturally. The root o...

r/Mommit 89 upvotes Relationships Featured

So this is going to sound silly but I have noticed everywhere we go (preschool, gymnastics etc) we are always the last ones to leave the parking lot. I’ve started to dread going to more than I e place with the kids because it takes so long for them to get back...

This struggle is all too real for parents of toddlers. Getting kids buckled in the car quickly and without a meltdown can feel like an endless battle. But there are proven strategies to make this process smoother and more efficient. The root cause often stems from toddlers' natural drive for independence and control, ...