Posted in r/datingoverthirty with 88 upvotes. This hits home for a lot of people — here's the real answer.
Hi all, I've (33F) been single for over 5 years now and I was hoping to get back into the swing of dating. For context I've spent my single years making new female friends, learning a new language and dealing with an unexpected and difficult on-going health problem. I've also subsequently spent alot of time inwardly focusing on bettering my mental health. I've downloaded the usual suspects in terms of OLD apps but I've realised I'm really struggling to swipe right. I'm struggling to feel attracted to profiles I'm seeing and also seem to be spotting possible red flags on every profile I'm seeing. I wonder if I might be unconciously looking for the red flags after a few red flag-filled relationships I experienced in my 20s. Does anyone else struggle with this or have I managed to work
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