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I've recently started work at a construction site. I'm pulling data cable, so at least there's a roof over my head and I'm not in direct sunlight, but there's still no AC, and it's triple digits every day where I am. Everyone else on the crew always leaves the site to buy lunch. I want to pack my lunch to save money, but at the same time, I appreciate sitting in AC at a fast food place. Also, if I stay onsite, I'd finish my lunch in like 10 minutes and then have nothing to do for 50 minutes. I don't mind the downtime, it's just that there's nowhere comfortable onsite to sit where I can rest/relax during that time. Most libraries don't allow food. Does anyone know an air conditioned place that would allow me to bring my own food and sit for an hour? EDIT: wow thanks everyone for all...
You can eat your packed lunch at nearby parks, community centers, or designated break areas within your workplace. Seek out quiet, comfortable spaces to enjoy your meal during your lunch break.
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