A real question from r/survivinginfidelity that deserves a real answer. Not generic advice — specific steps.
Disclamer - this is my alt-account. So i (35M) am here sitting in front of a hotel that my SO (let's call her V 38F) has been at for about 3 hours on Sunday afternoon after she said she needed to spend some time out for herself, doing window shopping and just "finding herself". Context. We have been together for 10 years. She had a surgery and few months ago that prevented us from having sex until yesterday, and she really enjoys sex, but she hasn't said anything about it and was distant when I was being flirty yesterday. So today she says she is going to go out and have some time for herself, she very rarely done this before. She gets showered, which she has been very inconsistent with for the last year. Puts makeup on, she also very rarely does. Before leaving she says...
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